Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Another fun day with Gary

We were able to spend another day with Gary. Aidan and Gary are like the best of friends now. We went and got Gary about 1030 this morning. We helped Grandpa pick some apples off of Suzie's tree and then we headed back to my house. From there I was able to talk Gary into mowing our front lawn. He only missed a couple of spots, but hey...even I do that. Then we had lunch and retired to the ultra cool (as in a comfy 66-69 degrees) basement. I got Aidan to wind down for a nap, and Gary played some Star Wars Legos and other video games. Then Gary and I colored some pictures. I have been working on a home made concentration game for Aidan. I know he is too young, but some days I think that he would be able to play and enjoy them. He currently enjoys a book that has some puzzle pieces in it. Then at 5 PM Suzie came to get our friend Gary. But we are excited it sounds like we get to play again tomorrow. Yippie!

I took this picture because Gary is playing Star Wars and Aidan just wanted to lean on Gary and watch. Aidan would giggle with Gary, get excited with Gary and frustrated with him too. It was so cute. Having Gary play with us everyday is helping me get comfortable with the idea of preparing for child number 2.

Monday, June 29, 2009

Gary Time!


Holly had to go to Pennsylvannia for a couple of days to be with a friend. So Gary was able to spend sometime with Grandma Suzie and today Gary was able to come over to our house and play. Aidan LOVES Gary. Poor Gary! Every time Gary comes around Aidan just acts all crazy like. Well we decided to watch a movie and relax. Aidan grabbed his bottle and decided to cuddle with Gary instead of Mom and Dad. I thougth it was so precious. We love being able to spend time with Gary.

Saturday, June 27, 2009

Without a doubt...spoiled rotten.

So everyone and I mean everyone around me pulled one over on me today.

Brian and I woke up like normal and got some chores done. Big deal. Then he got ready for work and left at 555 PM just like normal. Then at 610 PM Brian returned home and stated..."get dressed, you have 15 minutes". What??? He made me nervous. What happened at work? Is everything okay? While I am getting ready he got Aidan dressed and ready to go. What is going on? Then he changed his shirt. Seriously....what's going on? Brian told me nothing. We got into the car and drove off. We passed the theater, his parents house, even Wal-Mart...I was so confused. Then he got off at the Kaysville exit...my first thought...is Aunt LuAnn okay? What happened? (My phone had been on silent today so I may have missed a crucial call.) When we got to the Lincoln's house everyone was saying Happy Birthday and stuff and then Stephanie tells me it was a surprise party/ BBQ planned. What!?!?! Suzie and Stephanie planned this little party for me...I am so spoiled! I had no idea. Brian never had to work tonight...tease! Suzie, Reed, Virgie, Bob, the Bennetts, Cherie, Brianne, Joshua, Jordan, the Lincolns, Ann, Jeff and the Bovee's came! Seriously spoiled!!! A delicious spread of some of the most delightful Lincoln family fare was available to eat and Amy made some yummy burgers and dogs. It was wonderful. Thank you to all....

And then to add to my incrediable situation...there were gifts. I received an awesome clock from The Roth's. I know exactly were it is going, in the main living room on the currently long empty wall. Then a gift certificate from the Lincoln's to Target. Bob and Virgie got me some fancy whisks. One of them is both a whisk and a tong set. Cool huh! And then to top all of that off Brian and I received some house warming gifts. We received some mixing bowls, a broom, a duster, and a sign for the main living room. And then a new Bissel brand vacuum. How nice is that!

The night was wonderful and full of fun. Aidan enjoyed his freedom with cousins and the Bovee kids.

I just wanted to say thank you again to all those who thought about me, organized it, brought food, visited, and was just being there. Thank you so much. I will never forget my 30th birthday. I loved it! And you too!

How old are you again?

So today has been one of those days, come to think of it...this week has been one of those weeks. Maybe its because I became another decade older, maybe its because of life and its overwhelming me. Maybe, just maybe it just needed to happen...but I have been needing my Mother all week. I know...ridiculous right! I am now thirty years old, have a husband and a child of my own, my own house and I need my Mom. I have been trying to ignore it but I have just concluded that sometimes a girl just needs her Mom. I recently found a poem that I got out of the newspaper years ago because I thought it was pretty. It is sure ringing true today!

My mother called the other day
I hadn't spoken with her for a while
My life's burdens were heavy
Her voice was like the spring to me
Blossoms, and green, and hope-
All bound with a gentle breeze and
warm sun on my back
Memories swept across my mind
And a lifetime passed--all in a
moment's time
Her soft voice was calling to me:
you can do it
it will be okay
you are beautiful
and I love you--always I love you.
My mother called the other day
I hadn't spoken with her for a while
And though I was all grown up
Her voice called to me:
you can do it
it will be okay
you are beautiful
I love you.
--Peg Hope

So I had been the one to call her...silly reason actually. But this poem describes exactly how her voice made me feel.

The house. The beautiful new house that we bought is beginning to be overwhelming. The rain has been a constant. Not every day, but every other day a good sized storm comes through and drops water on us. I love the rain, no big deal. But the grass and the yard are growing so fast I don't know what to do! I have developed weeds in my backyard that are so strong and set in there ways I can't get them out. I started to think, maybe these obnoxious things aren't weeds. I called my Mom for advice and a demand. I need you to visit NOW and when you come I need to be taught in all the ways of my mommy. How in the world did she do it all? I know my dad was around but I just remember my mom doing it all.... I don't understand how she did it all. She had a full time job (sometimes two!), four children, a house that was always clean and organized, and even though we never had the most elaboratly landscaped yard, it was always clean and green. How did she do it? She would even play sports and have us in some kind of recreational thing....how?

I just wanted to point out that my mom, in her very unique, non chalant way always makes me feel better. Our conversations aren't very long or drawn out. But I love knowing that she is always there. I don't ever remember feeling this way but it is good to know that she is around and always a big help....no matter how lame my reasoning or need....I love my mommy! And yes I need my mommy...all the time...and yes...I am 30 years old and I admit....
I NEED MY MOM!!

Friday, June 26, 2009

My shirt!

I know that the picture isn't very good...I used my phone and he was moving. But I had just got out of the shower and couldn't find my shirt...or the child. So I went around the house looking for the child. Then I found him., with my shirt, on Brian's side of the bed. He had managed to take off his own shirt find mine and put mine on his little body. When I caught him and giggled he looked at me like oops...I got caught. Then I went for the camera and he started undressing again. Silly wonderful delightful child!

But when all was said and done. He freaked when I tried to put it on, so I am letting him wear it now. I tied it in the back so that it doesn't drag so much.

I found myself another shirt.
End of story.... :)

Thursday, June 25, 2009

Happy Birthday to me...you old lady!

So I have to admit...I was kind of mopey yesterday and earlier today. Today is my birthday. The big 30. That's right I am half way dead...my life is nearly over. Crazy thought process huh! So I was not real excited for today. Yesterday was horrible. It was yesterday that I realized that Brian would be working all day long. Brian has two jobs now. He still works for SLC as a computer tech but then he decided that he "missed" working in the projection booth at the theater so he made arrangements to go back, two days a week. Thursdays and Saturdays. So you got it...he would be up at 7 AM work in SLC until 5 PM drive home and return to the other job from 6 PM to 2 AM Friday morning.

Crappy!

So as I begin my pity party yesterday I do what I usually do and blog stalk and check out my regular sites. And would you know...EVERYONE SLAPPED MY WHINEY BUTT IN THE FACE...HARD! My good friend Debbie posted a story about playing the "Glad Game" as found in Pollyanna. Its the basic idea of find something to be happy about, because there's stuff everywhere (probably not exactly what it is, but that what I got from it). I loved it. Made me take a minute to ponder my attitude. Then I got on to FaceBook and read another blog from Brian's aunt Whit...about....you got it...the GLAD GAME...same referrence and everything. Yes...I was...awake, aware whatever you want to call it. So I decided to give it a try. It was hard, because I wanted to be a brat! I wanted to be spoiled and get my way....I didn't want Brian to work! But I have since regrouped. I have decided that all this GLAD GAME talk and Pollyanna business was something I needed to pay attention to.

Today was borderline obnoxious. Around every corner there was something that wanted to make me mad, sad, pouty and even irrate. But I played the game...and today wasn't that bad. I still missed Brian. But he was able to come and play for a little bit before work. I am truly loved by many, and I appreciated all they do...even if it is just there company or knowing that today...they thought about me...even for a minute...and that helped a lot. virgie and Bob made dinner and brought it to our house. Her yummy Barbeque (which apparently is just a fancy sloppy joe...see Armga recipes for the recipe) and funeral potatoes. Suzie, Jeff, Ann and Lorraine came over for dinner as well. Then everyone sang to me. That alone was wonderful. Aidan LOVES that song. He beams when he hears it. Even if it isn't for him. I love it. For presents I got a lot! A hamburger masher (Suzie doesn't think I make ground beef correctly so she found something to help me out!), silicone heart shaped muffin shapes, three batter bowls, a dozen red roses from Brian, a bouquet from my parents, a Jimmie Johnson folding chair, a card with some money from Grandma Wilson and and fabulous dinner. And to top it all off...Ann, Jeff, and Lorraine stuck around and played some Phase 10 with me. Its funny how the little things are the best. Even though I couldn't spend the evening with my Brian (we will go out tomorrow) it all worked out nicely.

So in order to follow the game...I am grateful for all of those who took a minute to wish me a happy birthday. I am grateful for this silly game that helped make my birthday a good one. Thanks again everyone!

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

FHE....Friends Home Evening

Growing up I don't really remember having too many family home evenings. You the kind where you all gather around the living room at seven on Monday night, read a scripture, a thought, and a lesson, followed by a baked good of some kind. I know that we had a couple just not really a habitual form of FHE. Maybe it was my dad's schedule, maybe it was not enough space, maybe I just can't remember.

One thing that Brian and I have talked about it is doing things either exactly the same as our parents or do it differently. After much talk we have decided to combine the to ideas.

Though I don't remember Monday nights specifically I do remember things like Friday night pizza and a movie night. Always cheap pizzas (either Little Caesars or frozen pizza) and go get two movies. A child friendly movie and then dad picked out an adult movie (not a naughty movie just a PG-13 or greater). It was such a treat if it was your turn to pick the movie! So in the tradition of that we have our own tradition to work on and build.

We have decided that we enjoying friends and having people around. So Monday nights will be FHE, Friends (Family) Home Evening. We will gather together and do something. Dinner, movies, games, walks in the park, visiting other family, etc. etc. As long as it is done together. At least one Monday a month we will do a religious FHE (not necessarily a lesson because there is so much to do in visiting church history and stuff).

Last night night we started this tradition. We had Megan, Steven and their kids Zoe and Lincoln come over for a stir fry/spring roll dinner and a game of phase 10. I have become addicted to phase 10...I love it! We had a blast. We were finally able to eat outside under our covered patio (a first!) and let the kids play in the yard. What a fun thing that is! They finally decided that it was time for kids to sleep about 1030. Brian and I had so much fun. Aidan enjoys playing with other kids and I am glad to help him with that. Thanks so much to the McFadden's for coming over and hanging out.

Monday, June 22, 2009

Aidan's backyard swim


The pre-swim picture.

Making sure that it is filling up properly.

He is a hands on kind of kid.
He had to make sure and do it himself.

A couple of weeks ago Aidan and I decided to get out him hippo that Jordan and Harrison got for his birthday and fill it up with water. A perfect little one person swimming area. We went to all the trouble of putting on sunscreen, swim shorts, blowing it up (thanks Brian!), taking pictures and filling it up. But when it was time to relax in the swimming pool. Aidan did not think that was very fun. He wanted to keep filling the pool up and then dump it out. What a cute kid! I think that he wasn't as impressed with this kind of swimming because we frequent the Clearfield Aquatic Center with our friends Megan and Zoe. Oh well...we will try again later. :)

Sunday, June 21, 2009

Father's day

Just wanted to say

HAPPY FATHER'S DAY!

We love you!

Father's day cake surprise!


Mixing up the batter...

Almost there....

Checking to make sure that it is ready to be baked.

Yummy....frosting!

Ready to frost the cake...or eat it too!


Decorating the cake...like the decorating job!

Last night while Brian was at work, Aidan and I made a couple of cakes for our father's day dinner. We made a two layer german chocolate cake and a single layer chocolate cake for Brian. Aidan did so well! He loves being in the kitchen with mommy and learning which tools to use when you cook certain items.

Then today we had Jeff, Ann, Lorraine, Virgie, Bob and Suzie over for some Lasagna dinner. It was pretty tasty...not as tasty as it has been but yummy all the same. Then we gave the dad's their gifts and visited for a while. Then the remaining individuals stuck around and played some phase 10 (Ann, Lorraine, Brian, Jeff and I). It was a lot of fun. That is all. Good night!

Thursday, June 18, 2009

My weekly update

Sorry I have been avoiding all of you lately. Or at least if it seems that way. I haven't done it on purpose. The last week has been a whirl wind of events worthy enough of documentation, but sadly I just haven't had a chance until now.


Last Wednesday we finally got the keys to the house. We went to dinner and received a phone call from the sellers realtor saying that he had them and would be able to met us later that night. What a wonderful feeling! Later that night we managed to get a moment and sit down with the computer and the telephone and beg and plead with family and friends to come and help us move the following night. I was so nervous that no one would show because it was on such short notice. I am happy to say that I worried for nothing. It is amazing to have such wonderful family and friends that are willing and able to drop the plans they had made so that they could come and help us out. I am so grateful for Jeremy, Steven, Ann, Lorraine, Debbie, Joe, Suzie, and Katelyn. They were real troopers and were amazing. We moved 99% of our stuff from Suzie's house to the trailer in about two hours. Then we ate some pizza and then in about 20 minutes we unloaded the trailer. How awesome is that! A big thank you to Debbie for knowing about the special trailer. And a big thank you to Jesse for dropping off the trailer. Once again it is awesome to feel the blessings of friends, family and especially the Lord. I could not keep myself together that night. After everyone left my heart was so full. I am so blessed!


That first night was amazing. Both Brian and I were thoroughly exhausted but it felt nice to sleep in our own bed in our new house.


The next day Brian headed off to work and I (being unemployed has its advantages) tinkered around the house slowly putting things were they should go and then moving them again. I have this constant feeling of being extremely overwhelmed. I will say it now....this house is too big for us. Granted that was the idea...buy a home to grow into...not one you regret. I have made sure to get Brian to call his sisters and parents on a regular basis to come over, when others are over here I feel more at home. I have called Bob and Virgie over a lot to come and just spend some time with me. Aidan has been having an adjustment issue and having them come over helps to down play his stress. Who doesn't get happy and relaxed around Grandma and Grandpa? On Friday night we went and spent some money on little necessities like food and paint samples. Then Ann and Lorraine came over for a visit. This story was nerve racking at the time but now it seems funny....those are some of the best events. Aidan started to get noticiably ornery and tired. So Ann took him to his room and prepped him for bed time (diaper changed, bottle, and pajamas on). Then she put him in the crib, turned off the light, closed the door and walked away. Well Aidan had a break down. We knew it was coming so we did what any parent would do...ignored it. He will just cry himself to sleep right. Well shortly thereafter Ann and Lorraine left and Brian and I retired to our bedroom. Then we heard it....silence. We both looked at each other and smiled relieved that he had finally drifted to sleep. Not more than two minutes later, Aidan's door opens and he walks out yelling at me...in a chastising way, I might add. Our son had found the motivation to climb out of his crib. We were hoping for him to wait a little while longer...but no luck. I put him back in the crib, as an experiment. Was that a one time event? Nope...and he is very quick about it now. So Aidan slept with us that night. The next night his crib became a transition bed.


Saturday was a memorable and wonderful day. We woke up early and headed to Logan. Brian and Ann were able to take out their endowments and go through the temple for the first time. It was so delightful. Crazy...but delightful. My heart was so full that day. The Logan temple was extremely busy that day...15 weddings or sealings in 4 hours. And to make it worse our situation was very confusing to all of the workers. I am married to Brian. Brian is Ann's sister. Brian and Ann were taking out their endowments for the first time so that I, previously endowed, could be sealed to Brian in August. And I was Ann's escort. I am pretty sure that a couple of the workers wanted to marry Ann and Brian for time and all eternity that day. :0 Good thing I was previously endowed and had some knowledge of what was going on. I had also been an escort before so I knew when to correct and assist the workers to getting us to the correct spot. On a side note my name is Katie Anne Larson and my sister in law is Ann Larson...I think that is were some of the confusion began....Brian could have been married to both of us that day. But when all was said and done....it was a wonderful experience. There were many who came a long way to support us....Grandpa Bob, Stephanie, Whit, John, Karrie, Charles, Mary, Kellie, Dustin, Reed and Linda. Reed and Linda weren't able to attend the same session as us but their support was still there, at the temple. We then took some photos and went and ate at a local Logan hot spot...the Bluebird. What a delicious treat! We had some others come and eat with us...Lorraine, Virgie, Suzie and Aidan. We couldn't forget our little guy! The food was yummy so if in the area try the Bluebird. Then we returned home for a relaxing day.


Later that day we met the previous owner. She is a doll. We found out that she and her family bought a house that Brian and I had talked about but deemed it out of our price range (it really was)...funny huh! Then Ann came over to play the game of Life.


Sunday we had much to do...we planned on attending two sacrament meetings but apparently the exhaustion got to us because we didn't wake up, any of us, until nearly noon. The first meeting was at 9AM and the second was at 1PM. People have said that we could have made the 1PM meeting but it would have been so crazy to try we decided against it. See, we don't have hot water. It wasn't to be turned on until Monday afternoon. So we would have had to pack up and head to Suzie's for a quick shower (that's three of us) and then hopefully make it there by 1PM.


Kellie and Dustin came over and saw the house. Ethan was sad to leave. That made me feel kind of good. He and Maren are welcome to come and play whenever they want to, Aidan would like that.


Now the days are mellowing out a bit. Monday we went and got some stuff from Steph. How awesome is she to let us use some of her stuff for a bit. Cool stuff too... like a couch, chair, washer, dryer, computer desk etc. Now our house is beginning to feel like a home.


So that has been our week in a nut shell. Hopefully soon I can get a slide show up. Life away from the blogging world has felt a big weird. But now that we have the internet back...hopefully I can get back to normal...and soon!

Wednesday, June 10, 2009

YIPPIE!!!


My new kitchen

The previous owners were so thoughtful and cute.
They got us a card and sparkling cider to celebrate
our new home with...notice the new glasses.
Freaking sweet huh!

Aidan and Ann exploring our new backyard and covered patio.

Our new family room...

Aidan and Brian exploring the front yard.


So tonight Brian and I went to Red Robin for dinner. And we finally got that awesome phone call that we have been waiting for. The other realtor called and we met him at the house and got the keys....our keys. Yippie! We walked through it with most of Brian's family (Pat was working and Matt is MIA) and they are happy for us too.

So tomorrow and Friday night will be moving nights for us. We would appreciate any and all help that we can get. We plan on starting tomorrow at 7PM and working for a couple of productive hours. Then the same on Friday. Any and all hands are welcome.

Sunday, June 7, 2009

Viva SLC

Brian and I ate at the famous Red Iguana Restuarant in SLC. We have been there many times before...but it was sure good to eat there before the concert started. We love the Chili Verde Burritos...yummy! I get hungry just thinking about it!


After eating a very yummy dinner. We headed to the Gallivan Center for Viva SLC...a yearly concert put on by the Blaze radio station. Brian and I went to this concert last year and had a blast so we decided to go again. It is so much fun. tickets were only $10.00! We were able to see Veer Union, Pop Evil, Ten Years and Royal Bliss. I hope some of you have heard of these groups, but especially ROYAL BLISS....why you ask. Royal Bliss is a local band going big in the music industry. They are amazing...really they are a rock band that knows how to rock but the lead singers Neil's voice is very soothing to me...it sounds weird but oh well! I encourage anyone and everyone to check them out. They have some stuff on youtube. My favorite songs are:

I was drunk (just listen to it)
Fine wine and champagne
Brave (all time favorite!!!)
Angels and Devils (this one gets a good amount of play time on the radio)
Save me (another good one with air time)
We did nothing wrong (played A LOT right now)

Thanks to the local boys gone big for an awesome concert! And a special thanks to Blythe (and Stephanie) for watching Aidan so Brian and I could have a date. It was awesome! Thanks again!

More of the waiting game

So if you haven't been able to tell...I am not good with being a patient person...nor am I willing to change that...well....usually not. Am I being taught some kid of strange and cruel lesson about patience?

I keep thinking to my self...."the best things come to those who wait"...thank you Heinz ketchup for such a slogan. I love my ketchup and all of its glory...but enough already.

Last week we finally signed the papers. Then we even went back to finish signing the papers that they forgot to have us sign (not a big deal papers, but additional papers all the same). Now we get to wait and find out when we can get the keys to the new place. Frustrating. I just want to move in. On a side note that is why I have not been able to give any more details to those awesome people who have volunteered to help. As soon as I know something I will totally let you know. Sorry for the drama.


Brian and I went to a fun store on Saturday.....
This store could be a dangerous place. Thank goodness it is in South Salt Lake. I would have been able to go crazy in this place...well I actually did a little bit. But I could have done a lot more damage.

Thursday, June 4, 2009

Welcome home Larsons!

Last night we FINALLY got to sign the paperwork on our BRAND NEW HOUSE! Thank you Brian! HE was the one who bought me a house!















Some rudementary pictures of the floor plan. I couldn't sleep the other night...I was thinking, plotting, planning, etc. so I did these up on the computer. Silly I know!

Main floor level














Basement floor level













Backyard...as done using the "paint" feature. I need to practice using that program. :)















After signing all of the paperwork...Brian and I decided to head to Olive Garden for a celebratory dinner. We were so happy and serene while at Olive Garden, we didn't talk much. But when we did with both had smiles on our faces. We mainly talked, planned, plotted, and thought about what wonderful things we could do and experience in our new home.





Thanks to all that have helped with everything to get us to this point. We GREATLY APPRECIATE ALL OF IT.

Now comes the planning of moving day.

Brian and I won't be getting the keys until late Saturday night-ish. So we need to plan a day during the week to move...more specifically after his work schedule. We can't do anything this Saturday because we have a concert to go to and next Saturday Brian and his sister are going through the temple for the first time...so that's out.

If you are able to help out this week please let me know. I would like to coordinate times that we can get a group together. But we plan on taking loads over every night. Any help would be incredibly helpful and appreciated. Once we are settled....parties will be planned soon after. Yippie!

Thanks again to my Brian for buying me a house!

Wednesday, June 3, 2009

WhyWhyWhyWhy

Why do I want a house? Why do I want anything? I am truly spoiled but I hate games. I hate the loops that one needs to go through to get things done. I have no idea how anyone can feel productive if you micromanage things. Its ridiculous. I am not blaming anyone specific for my current state of turmoil..but...good gravy! Enough already!

Today has been a day! This week has been a week!

Brian has been playing phone tag and email tag all week trying to get paperwork done. And it has been one crazy loop after the other to jump through. And it is absolutely silly. "This paper is not as detailed as it should be try again", "This paper needs to be signed and faxed back", "This paper needs everyone to sign it that may or may not in your gene pool", "This check needs verification that it is a check","This check needs to be signed in blood, with a DNA test showing that you or any other member of your family is or is not a trouble maker". This is all an exaggration but I feel like phone tag and email tag and all the questions and loops are uncalled for. Damn economy!


Ladies and Gentlemen NOW is the time to buy a house! The economy needs you! The housing market is working in your favor!

If you bought into all of this stuff....you are a good person. But be prepared...NOW is a fabulous time to buy. But because the economy is suffering be aware that those helping buyers get into homes are doing everything in there power to make sure that you can't screw up...not that we intend to. But now we are so.....AAAAAAAAAGHHHHHHHHGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHH! Compared to what others have told me....the games are more sophisticated, the loops are smaller, and those lending the money want to make sure that you are SUPER DUPER WITHOUT A DOUBT READY AND ABLE FOR SUCH A COMMITTMENT!

We are................just let us sign on the dotted line already!
Give us the keys already.


Thanks for the vent!

On a side note....

Brian was driving to work this morning when this happened.


Luckily he was fine, but the he was unable to make it into work. It took the tow truck 90 minutes to arrive and then, well, Brian needed a moment. And I don't blame him at all. What a dramatic week this week has been.

It will all be worth it.....right?